What we believe at a subconscious level is what governs our lives.
What we believe is the result of how our subconscious has got conditioned, our primary instinct.
Our mind builds a belief system based on our every day experiences. Some times even the smallest most insignificant incident, that we might have forgotten a long time ago would have shaped our mindset in ways beyond our imagination.
Fears we develop, about places, about people, about situations, about our own abilities all end up making a home in a deep corner of our mind. Creeping up when you evaluate a situation, when you are about to make a decision.
If you want everyone in your family to be healthy but, you keep fearing about someone’s wellbeing. This is an example of what you want but what is the actual thought running in your head.